The Arc of Residency at BHFH
By Jennifer Newman • March 13, 2026

BHFH Residency Program
The Mission of Beacon Hill Friends House is:
To embody the Quaker principles of faith, simplicity, integrity, community and social responsibility in order to nurture and call forth the Light in all of us.
Beacon Hill Friends House is as much a thing one does as a place one lives. The Friends house is a place for people to grow and deepen, whether you attend one public event, or you live here for four years. Our full-time residents have the deepest opportunity for engagement here, and thus the deepest opportunity for growth.
We all arrive at the Friends House at a different point in our lives, and we work together to build a residential community rooted in Quaker values that supports growth, discovery, and reflection. In addition to the life here at the House, we value each individual’s life outside the House, and seek to honor that balance.
Though each experience will be unique, the House provides some structures and support to help residents reflect, grow, and build skills and capacity to live in greater alignment with their values and our shared vision of a just world. Three main areas where the House seeks to offer support are Community and Service, Cooperation and Collaboration, and Personal and Spiritual Growth. Below are some things a resident can expect in their journey here.
Community and Service
Being an “intentional community” is one of the most obvious ways we live into our value of community, and the practice of living intentionally with a diverse group of people offers a wide variety of joys, challenges, and opportunities for growth. We build community here through our shared House dinners five times each week, our House Meetings twice a month, our Retreats twice a year, as well as other opportunities to connect offered formally by our committees and informally by our housemates.
Our sense of community here extends outside just our full-time residents, and includes the Beacon Hill Friends Meeting, guests who come to stay in our two overnight guest rooms, people who attend our public events, and others who use our space. On an institutional level, we support a diverse group of organizers and activists with affordable (often free) use of our space. Residents are exposed to these networks of change in Boston, and often get opportunities to interact and make connections with the folks coming through our space. Additionally, many House residents bring their own social concerns, and the House seeks to support these with educational and service opportunities.
A resident will leave here having shared welcome, hospitality, and fellowship with a wide array of people, and having reflected on and practiced living a life in line with their values.
Cooperation and Collaboration
When a resident first arrives at the Friends House, there is a lot to learn. While all residents work together to support new arrivals, each new resident is assigned a mentor, who helps to orient them to the systems we use to live and work together, from our dish crews, to our chores, to our committee structures.
During a resident’s tenure here, they will serve on various committees, learning group process skills from our Quaker roots, and from the experience of the wide variety of folks they work with. Many residents will take on leadership roles, such as serving as a Clerk (facilitator) for a committee or for House Meeting, or serving on the Board of the non-profit that governs the House.
All residents participate in collective care for the House by participating in our twice-yearly Work Days. Many residents will also serve on our Building and Grounds committee, which helps with ongoing maintenance and larger building projects.
A resident will leave here with a strong sense of group process and experience with collaborative work, which are skills that extend beyond cooperative living into our personal and professional lives.
Personal and Spiritual Growth
While some residents are Quaker, most are not; we are a diverse community running the spectrum of faith and non-faith backgrounds. Each resident will have different personal and spiritual needs; at the same time, we often grow most when we share in each other's journeys. Residents participate in a number of programs here designed to facilitate this sharing and growth. During House Meeting and House Retreat, we explore deep topics together. Committees organize events to share their diverse holiday traditions and to create times for reflection. Residents are encouraged to attend and to help create public programming at the House that offers opportunities for spiritual and personal exploration.
In addition to these communal activities, each resident also participates in a personal yearly reflection process, engaging in queries both individually and with others in the community. Throughout their time here, residents are exposed to tools, practices, and guidance from the Quaker faith, including most notably the use of centering silence.
Residency at the Friends House is an opportunity to explore one's faith, to love, accept, and accompany, and to prepare for whatever comes next in one’s journey. We hope that the lessons and growth someone experiences as a resident stay with them beyond their time at the Friends House.
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